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Robert Fulghum

All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten: Uncommon Thoughts on Common Things

Nonfiction | Essay Collection | Adult | Published in 1986

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In his compilation of essays, All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, Robert Fulghum studies the simplicity embedded in everyday experiences. First published in 1989, this collection captivated a global audience, becoming a cultural touchstone as a #1 New York Times bestseller and selling over 7 million copies. Fulghum draws from his life experiences to craft this collection of essays. This collection, which falls within the self-help, motivational, and personal transformation genres, explores themes such as the importance of community and the enduring significance of early childhood lessons. Fulghum advocates for the virtues of simplicity, kindness, and empathy, uncovering meaning and exposing the lessons found within the mundane interactions of everyday life.

Born in 1937 in Waco, Texas, Fulghum pursued a range of careers, from being a ditch digger and cowboy to working at IBM, before ultimately becoming a minister and educator. He attended Baylor University, earned a Bachelor of Divinity from Starr King School for the Ministry, and was ordained as a Unitarian Universalist minister. He served for 22 years in the Pacific Northwest while teaching at Seattle’s Lakeside School.

This guide refers to the First Revised Trade 25th Anniversary Edition published in May 2004. This edition includes a new preface and the additional essays introduced in the 15th-anniversary edition, enhancing its original insights with contemporary relevance.

Content Warning: The source text contains references to suicide and suicidal ideation. In addition, the N-word appears once in the source text.


All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten is comprised of 50 short essays, vignettes, and personal stories that explore the subtleties of human existence. Fulghum’s narratives center on routine events, minor details, and evocative memories and inspire the recognition of the remarkable within the ordinary.

Some pairs of essays, such as “Credo” and “Deep Kindergarten”; “Haiho Lama” and “Angels”; “Larry Walters” and “The Truth About Larry Walters,” are in direct conversation with each other, with the latter essays offering updates and reflections on the previous one. Other essays are linked more implicitly around themes of simplicity, innovation, ritual, and community. A series of reflections on flight, which includes the two Larry Walters pieces as well as a historical account of early experiments, gives way to essays about everyday objects—laundry, medicine cabinets, jumper cables, and vacuum cleaners among them—that return to questions of invention, innovation, and what meaningful lives look like. Threaded among these stories are essays such as “Help” and “The Mermaid,” which develop Fulghum’s ideas about community that are realized later in “Weiser, Idaho” and “Buffalo Tavern,” two mediations on the unifying power of music. “Midwinter” introduces a group of essays about rituals, particularly those that surround Christmas, and the ebbs and flows of community feeling.

The final set of essays, introduced in the short piece “Next Six Stories,” charts Fulghum’s friendship with his neighbor, Mr. Washington. “Dandelions” describes a light-hearted disagreement with his neighbor over dandelions, using the resilient weed as a metaphor for finding value in minor details. “Stick-Polishing” fantasizes about a Zen-like ritual of stick-polishing that offers a reprieve from chaos, using this task as a metaphor for the value of focusing on the small. “The Odds” portrays one of Fulghum’s neighbors as a philosophic gambler who views life as a strategic game. “Where The Snow Goes” contrasts Fulghum’s acceptance of natural disorder in his leaf-covered yard with his neighbor’s meticulous upkeep, exploring themes of control and time. “Hair” explores how seemingly mundane interactions like haircuts can evolve into meaningful relationships through regular visits to his barber.

The collection ends with a “Reflection” that revisits the fundamental lessons from Fulghum’s book, confirming their relevance and his commitment to a life of engagement and reflection. “Coda” contemplates the nature of endings and the continuous cycle of learning and writing, inspired by the cyclical narrative structure of James Joyce’s Finnegans Wake.