Consider the relationships depicted in the novel. To what extent is sexual desire and satisfaction in the novel the product of wanting something forbidden or out of reach?

Consider Ellie and Jennifer’s respective social circles. To what degree are friends a reliable source of romantic advice? How might friends represent an obstacle to romantic satisfaction?

The novel explores the distance between communication at the turn of the 21st century and half a century prior. What perspective does the novel take on the idea of the possibility of love letters in the present day?